Sex is magic, magic is sex…
I’m pretty sure I got that from Hellblazer. I could be wrong though.
I’m really not going into some massive in depth discussion on sex magic here. I haven’t read widely on the subject and most of what I know is from experimentation and experience.
What I want to point out is that, despite my own love of the combination of sex and magic, it’s not a fucking given that everyone who does magic does sex. Amongst magical practitioners are the asexual, celibate and traumatised. People who for one reason or another just don’t do sex and that we put such a huge emphasis on sex and sexuality in the West is off putting to many.
Hell, it’s off putting to me. I do sex magic with my long term partner, The Wolf. No one else. It’s an intimate and private practice. My sex and sexuality is not for public consumption and the assumption that it is is far too often made. There are many who choose to display their sex, sexuality… sensuality publically and often and that’s great.
But this whole goddess in touch with her suaxual energies and yoni and menstrual magic and yadda yadda yadda…
Not everyone’s cup of tea.
Now don’t even get me started on how fucking heterosexual most people sex is when it comes to magic either. Don’t even.